I flew into Phoenix for the weekend to celebrate Mother's Day with my Grandparents. My Grandma, Dorothy "Dot" DeMaio is still hanging in there in her late 80s. They are living in Sun City West, a community by Del Webb. Sun City is one of those planned communities.
The streets are laid out in increasingly larger concentric circles from the center where the senior facilities (tennis courts, golf course, hospital, theatre) can be found. Maybe its really good that the city is circular considering the age of the population. According to community rules one must be above the age of 55 to live in Sun City... so I'd have to wait another 30 years or so to get into it... but trust me, there is nothing further from my wishes as to end up in the dessert.
The weather peaked out at 102 degrees. Even though I found the dry heat pleasant, none of my family would join me outside for any length of time. It was a far cry from Madison WI last weekend, when it snowed.
For some reason I'm beginning to get the sense that I should decide on one location and stick to it for a season. All of this climate hopping has left me with a bit of a sore throat, which I was very aware and concerned about when visiting with my grandmother who is immunosuppressed by age. My Grandpa Tony is healthy as a horse, but he admitted to me privately that he was having a difficult time taking care of Grandma all of the time, especially with putting and taking her wheelchair out of the car on trips to the doctor's office and the store. To me the chair is light weight. I can pick it up with one hand, but then again I'm young and able.
I am currently devising a plan to create a device that will auto load the chair into the trunk with the use of a lever. If you have seen such a device or have a plan in mind for its construction, please let me know.
But I digress, it was Mother's Day and we got together at my cousin Robert & his wife, Lynzie's house. They are new parents themselves... well not exactly new... this is their 4th Mother's Day. Robert grilled several racks of ribs, salmon, peppers, and other veggies which produced quite a bounty of food for our family.
My father and his brother Kenny were estranged for a long while which I suppose closed the channels of communication from my cousins and I, even though were were never really that close to begin with. I hadn't met Robert & Lynzie's daughter before. The last time I was in Phoenix was in November 11, 2000. I remember that day clearly as a plane crashed in New York and I dreamed it would happen just as the day was inversed from 9/11... 11/9 would bring another. It was also the day I was to fly back to Madison.
Anyway, I have a new CUZ named Samantha and she's awesome. She didn't care about the heat and I hung out with her while she played in her sandbox and made mud pies and rode around on her tricycle and electronically motored VW Bug. I get along great with kids. I guess its cause they can tell I'm still a kid too. I made a go of riding the tricycle myself, which was good for a laugh from the family.
From Cuz's perspective, both of her Great Grandmas & Grandpas were in attendence, her Grandma Pat & Grandpa Ken (my uncle), her Grandma Lucy (Lynz's Mom) her Grand Aunt Linda and Grand Uncle Doug (my parents). It was a good day.